Want to design what’s next for you?
REDEFINED is for women who are divorced or in-process, and know deep down they’re not done. Eight weeks of coaching to get out of survival mode, get clear on what you want, and become the version of you who gets to decide what happens next. Your marriage ended. Your life is just getting interesting.
Fast forward several months….
Could you picture yourself signing the papers on a home – or a business – that’s entirely, completely yours, bought and built on your own terms, with your own name on it?
Or waking up alone in a rented villa somewhere in Tuscany, with absolutely nowhere you have to be and nobody to answer to about how you spend the day? Or singing a karaoke duet at a tiki bar with a stranger you just met five minutes ago? Or watching the sunset on a gorgeous beach while you strike a sun salutation pose on a sandy mat, surrounded by a group of fit, tanned, peace-filled fellow yogis?
I know, first-hand, how all of those scenarios can seem unlikely, maybe even ridiculous, to you right now. But I can also tell you, first-hand, that you should be gearing up for the biggest, juiciest, most expansive part of your life yet.
It’s not the particular scenes that matter here – it’s the outcome. The transformation. A life so fun, wild, and free that you’ll have to pinch yourself to believe it’s happening.
You get to decide what fun, wild, and free looks like for you.
But you can’t get from where you are now to what could be if you’re still stuck in the wreckage — the shock, the conflict, the bitterness left over from the end of your marriage.
REDEFINED is the how.
Nobody tells you that sometimes the hardest part doesn’t happen during the divorce. It happens as the fighting quiets down and the finish line finally comes into view – or right after you cross it – and you’re left standing in a life you don’t quite recognize, asking a question no attorney can answer.
Maybe your divorce is already final. Maybe it’s close enough that you can feel it coming, and some part of you already knows you’re going to need more than the legal process to get you to where you actually want to be. Either way, you’re already circling the same question.
You’ve spent months, maybe years, thinking about your ex. His behavior. What he did. What he didn’t do. The lawyers. The money. The conflict. The past.
This is not a divorce support group. It’s not therapy. It’s not a legal or financial course. It’s not about the mechanics of your divorce – that work matters. It’s just not what this is.
Redefinition. Letting Go. Self-Trust. Peace & Personal Power. Desire. The Glow-Up. Creation. Choice.
Each week moves you further from what happened to you and closer to what you’re building for yourself after your divorce.
By week eight, you trust your own judgment again. You know what you want, and you’re no longer apologizing for wanting it. Decisions that used to paralyze you don’t anymore. You’re curious about your own life again instead of just getting through it.
REDEFINED is for you if your divorce is settling down – legally, logistically – but you’re not settled. If you look completely capable from the outside (you’ve raised kids, built a career, held it together) and still find yourself thinking I don’t know who I am anymore, or I know I don’t want my old life, but I don’t know what I want instead – this is for you.
If you’re still deep in the thick of the divorce itself – decisions, mediation prep, managing a high-conflict ex – start with private coaching instead. That’s the right support for where you are right now. REDEFINED picks up from there. And it may be right for you now, even if your divorce was final years ago and you just haven’t figured out who you are yet.
Let’s be clear about what Glow-Up actually means, because it has nothing to do with revenge, and even less to do with your ex. The hottest thing about a woman after divorce isn’t how she looks. It’s how completely she belongs to herself.
This glow-up is emotional, mental, physical, social, financial, and yes – sensual. It’s confidence. It’s curiosity. It’s a life that’s actually, entirely yours. Become so fully yourself that whether your ex regrets fumbling you becomes completely irrelevant. That’s the real flex.
Your Investment $875.
You’re not paying for eight sessions. You’re investing in the version of you waiting on the other side of this process.
Maybe you’re angry. Maybe you’re relieved. Maybe you’re scared. Maybe (probably) you’re all three. But I know you’re reading this because you are asking yourself: what am I going to do with the life I have after divorce?
That’s where REDEFINED begins. Not by fixing you. Not by telling you to move on. It begins by helping you decide who you are now, what you’re ready to release, whether you can trust yourself again, what you actually want, and how you’re going to build it.
The marriage ended. You didn’t.
“Marlene’s support and coaching has helped me in away where I am able to feel and work with my own strength in a different perspective. This not only helps myself, but also the people around me. I find I am able to pause more before reacting, bringing grace forward to any troubling situations. I found Marlene to be very loving and kind, and ready to get to work meeting me exactly where I was at. She has a way of seeing the strengths we forget about or went unnoticed for some time. Thank you Marlene, I am forever grateful.”
-Karen K.
“Marlene is one of the most gifted healers and an extraordinary human being. Her entrance into my life was timely. I have had several sessions with Marlene and they are always so articulate, precise and nourishing. She ultimately helped me return to myself, creating a sense of calm. So each time I have been off track she provides reminders and inclinations that everything is all right. Nothing is out of her scope, everything is welcome, nothing is deemed to be strange, and she reminds of my purpose and how to access my own strengths. With gratitude!”
-Loren S.
“My divorce coaching sessions with Marlene are always so empowering. I come into the session feeling like I’m completely unraveling with whatever has happened that week, and it doesn’t take long for her to make me feel seen and heard. And to help me remember how capable I actually am. She helps me unscramble my feelings and get down to the business at hand – making a strategic plan, creating goals and action steps, and supporting me to follow through. I literally sleep better at night knowing she has my back and is in my corner!”
-Kathryn S.
“Working with Marlene helped me manage the overwhelming range of emotions I felt in my divorce so I could stay focused (and keep my composure) with my divorce attorney and in collaborative meetings. She helped me organize my thoughts and reality-test my goals and my decisions. I felt much more able to make smart, informed decisions about my future and to keep myself moving forward. Wish I had found her sooner.”
-Tracey R.
“Working with Marlene has been such a transformative experience! What felt like the end of my world (getting divorced!) gradually became a new chapter she helped me to see and design for myself. Through her coaching and guidance, I was able to understand more clearly what my choices were each step of the way in my divorce process, and I’ve learned to value myself as a independent person, slowly realizing and accepting the responsibility of making my life an amazing one. I will continue to use all of the tools, strategies, and perspectives she shared with me to get through new challenges I face.”
-Susan N.
“I started working with Marlene a several months ago as I was working towards ending my 31 year marriage. I was sad, stressed, confused and looking for a way to work through it. I needed support and had no idea where to look. A friend recommended Marlene and I am forever grateful for it. Marlene helped me emotionally, mentally, & gave me the strength and clarity to navigate my divorce. Her guidance and resources on preparing my financial path were instrumental in me being able to move forward. She listened when I cried, cheered me on when I was hopeless and did it all with humor, grace, empathy and great skill. No matter where I was at emotionally, Marlene met me there and helped me find the best way forward. I can’t recommend Marlene enough no matter where you are in your own journey. She was always available and present for me. Anyone who has her as part of their team is lucky beyond measure.”
-Anne W.
“Divorce coaching with Marlene was life-changing. I felt so overwhelmed with the emotions of my marriage ending, dealing with the pain of infidelity, and then on top of that, the legal choices and my fears around the financial side of divorce. She was such a rock and resource for me. She connected me to other professionals when I needed them, so I always felt like I had a way to get the answers I needed. The practices, perspectives, and understanding she helped me with supported me to stay committed to my values, to my health, and to what I wanted my post-divorce life to look like. So grateful and highly recommend her.”
-Diane W.
“Marlene’s ability to listen and distill my thoughts, anxieties, attitude, etc and help me to better understand and channel those thoughts and emotions is absolutely stellar. Marlene is incredibly insightful, compassionate and most of all, REAL, in her approach to helping me feel informed and ready to deal with confidently making really hard (life altering!) decisions. I highly encourage anyone looking for support, clarity, coping skills and a compassion to sign up for her divorce coaching services. Life is good now and I truly feel Marlene’s guidance, insights and approach helped me get here.”
-Trisha N.
“I wasn’t sure what to expect when I first signed up for divorce coaching with Marlene. I wasn’t sure I even wanted a divorce. I just knew I had to make a change and I could feel Marlene’s genuine compassion and patience with me and my situation. I never felt judged nor did she ever try to tell me what I should do. Her coaching was the best investment I’ve made in myself and my marriage in YEARS. I can’t say enough for how she really helped me see my circumstances differently and come up with strategies to improve the ways I deal with conflict. I learned to focus my energy on the things I could control, instead of what I couldn’t. I decided to keep working on my marriage, but I also feel more confident that I understand what the process will look like, and what the least destructive options would be, if I were to someday decide on a divorce.”
-Jenn B.
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Marlene Caraballo, DCA® Certified ADR Divorce Coach
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